Thursday, October 6, 2016

Beauty Routine

I'm posting this for a friend who called today, asking about my makeup and routine. Keep in mind, I don't do all of this EVERY day. However, it's a comprehensive list for a reason. The ones that are *'d are the ones I do pretty much every day. Some days I don't wear any makeup at all so eyeliner/mascara don't get worn.

Indie Makeup companies I mention: Notriously Morbid or NM and Aromaleigh

*Wash your face. Please, please do this, even if you did it as part of your nightly routine. Your skin will thank you. I use a handmade soap from Ashes and Alchemy.

*Micellar Water. This stuff is a holy grail for me. I absolutely adore it!

*Moisturizer - I use Andalou Naturals Resveratrol Q10 Night Repair Cream I know, it says night repair but I use it in the morning as well.

Then I use Garnier Naturals 5 Second Blur

Next, a face primer. Right now I'm using Sephora Collection Ultra Smoothing Primer Just a word about primers, I know that some companies have color correcting primers. Just like with all make-up, there is no one size fits all. Many of them are going to have too much correcting color, in my experience. Too much green = jaundiced. If you MUST use a color correcter, buy a loose powder and apply with a very light hand. A fiber optic brush is a better option and again a light hand.

Concealer - I know it's going to sound cheesy, but Hard Candy's Glamoflauge has worked amazingly well for me. Squeeze a tiny bit onto the back of your hand and use a concealer brush. It's not going to take much and it stays in place after blending.

Foundation - Kat Von D's Lock-It Foundation This is a heavy coverage foundation and can be used to cover up tattoos if the need arises. Please, for the love of all you hold sacred, use a foundation brush! I kept hearing, "One pump will cover your whole face", it was taking me 3!! Bought a foundation brush, one pump on the back of the hand and voila! If you don't have a Sephora close by to find your match, and taking a gamble at $35 isn't advisable, there are sellers on ebay who sell samples.

Next, you need to set your foundation, especially if you have oily skin. Right now, depending on the day, I'm either using a barely there loose face powder, or a Mattifying Balm from Elf. I am dying to try this High Definition Pressed Powder from Lunatik Labs.


I mean, c'mon, do you SEE that packaging?

Highlight, Contour, Blush  - Right now, my go-to for all 3 are from Notoriously Morbid
I do have a highlighter stick, palette, and eyebrow highlight stick from Hard Candy. They are cream based so are a little tricky to work with until you get used to them.
Brushes are incredibly important in this regard. So please, go check out Phyrra's Pale Girls Guide to Contouring 

Next up, eyes! They are, after all, the windows to the soul.
I no longer used pressed shadows. I haven't used pressed shadows in about 8 years. For a very, very long time I used Aromaleigh Well, no, let me rephrase that, I still do! Until today, when I bought some contouring and highlighting shades I hadn't bought from her in many, many years. I just recently began shopping with Carrie, over at Notoriously Morbid. Her colors are absolutely breath-taking and in themes/color schemes that I adore. I am, however, getting ahead of myself a bit. There is a step before shadows.

PRIMER! Yes, we prime the face and we prime the eyes. Primer gives loose shadows something to adhere to.UD Primer Potion I've tried many, many primers and this one is my favorite.

Then I'll use a Matte shadow that's close to the color I intend to wear, or I'll use the color I am wearing as a bit of a base. I do this because we have another step when using glittery/duo chrome shadows.

Many of NM's shadows are glittery or duo chrome. So they need a sticky base to adhere to in order to see all that sparkle or color-shifting goodness. And NM has you covered with Shadow Bind Just a tiny dab (and I do mean tiny) tapped over the shadow layer you just put on (do one eye at a time) then use a short, flat brush and tap it onto the lid. Don't swipe or you'll lose all the sparkly you're trying to bring out.

*Eyeliner - Oh the bane of my existence. I have discovered, as I've gotten older, that my eyes are entirely too wet for lining the waterline. However, I do line the lid at the lashline and for that I use Nyx Slide on Pencil I will sometimes use it to line the lower lashline. Most of the time now, though, I use a dark eyeshadow.

*I finish the eyes off with Maybelline's Falsies Push up drama
The lashes in this pic are not actual falsies.


Exfoliate the lips using a toothbrush and then I use NM's Mystic Mattes. Some days it's just that. Other days I apply lip liner and NM's Changeling topcoat. Those topcoats are AMAZING.

I have many finishing powders to choose from to swipe lightly over my face before setting it all in place. It depends on the look I'm going for that day.

To finish the look and make sure it stays where I put it, I use Urban Decay's All Nighter Makeup Setting Spray
I tried several drugstore brands and my main complaint was when I went to take it all off at night I had to scrub. It was almost like having a light film of spray glue on my skin.

So now I've worn some or all of this on my face, what do I do to get it off?

Ashes & Alchemy soap to remove the bulk of the foundation.
Micellar Water to get any residue off.
NIght Repair Cream
*And just before bed I use Slumber Salve from NM.

3 times a week I use Raw Apple Cider Vinegar and if I'm having a horrible skin day there are essential oils that get used as well.

I know, it seems like a LOT, but many days foundation and eyeliner/mascara is all I actually manage in the makeup department. However, I clean and prep my face every morning and evening.

Hope this helps!

Tuesday, October 4, 2016

Autumn, the closing of chapters and Samhain!!


Be spiderwebbed and glazed in frost
She wears death beautifully
More stunning now than in her life
On a bed of autumn leaves


 My favorite time of year has arrived and I'm glad of it! The days of 90+ temps have given way to lower to mid 70's in the day and 50-60 at night. That was a long, long, LONG hot summer and I'm glad to be rid of it. Which means that now, introspection has begun for me. I know, beyond all doubt, that I can only control myself, but I'm seeing behavior from others that has me questioning a lot the last few weeks. It also means that Type O Negative is on almost constantly when I have music playing. It also means that every time I put makeup on, I'm reaching for my Notoriously Morbid Bunt Flowers Fallen/Drab Four shades.

So something has happened more than once that I feel the need to address. I make no secret of the fact I'm a witch. Pretty much everyone that knows me knows this about me. I don't expect everyone to understand it, however, if I don't send you witchy messages personally I expect you to afford me the same courtesy. If I show you that much respect then you should show me the same, right? Right. So consider this, the next time you send out Jesus chain letters and you send it directly to my inbox, I'm going to call you out on it. Don't say you respect/understand and then show me how much you actually DON'T by sending me preachy chain letters. It does nothing for your cause (not that chain letters achieve anything, anyway) and only serves to make me question your motives. I don't proselytize at you, don't do it to me. If you do, then our friendship means absolutely zilch to you. Also, if I spend hours doing something you've asked of me and you then disregard it, don't expect me to do further things for you. My time is better spent watching paint dry or grass grow.

This years Raqs Synister is in the books and I'm still not sure exactly how I feel. Make no mistake, Classic Horror was the best RS to date. Everyone was phenomenal, from what I saw through the little curtain crack in the corner. For me personally, it was a big night. It was my final performance on stage. I think I did Baba Yaga proud, for she has now stopped being so insistent. So here's to the closing of chapters and writing of new ones! There are never any candid pictures of me at any event, so that our ticket taker took the time to snap one of my beloved and I was really awesome. Thanks B!


Samhain is on the horizon and I have already witnessed the thinning of the veil. Which is rather exciting for me. I'll be performing a small ritual the night of the 31st as we head into the new year. It's more about reflection and symbolism for me but it's such an important day in my practice. I shed the last vestiges of the old and usher in the new. November 1st will see many, many things begin for me and mine.

House stuff is still coming along. They came and did the survey on Thursday. Then yesterday the new maps were drawn. So we're moving steadily forward! My little one also had her 1st day at the brand new school buildings yesterday. Last year and the 1st month of this year, SRCA was in a temporary location. Now we have a beautiful new school and we're all so incredibly proud of where we are. I'm also in the process of discovery for implementing a meditation program at our school!

Anyway, some targeted blog posts are coming. Chaos has died down so I can now focus on some projects that had to sit by the wayside for a while. I hope October brings you as much joy as it always brings me!

Till next time,
M